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​What kind of people are in the pool?
Many members come from dance and embodiment backgrounds, tantra and temple communities, tech and rationalist spaces, and spiritual or self-growth backgrounds.
Many are simply poly and ENM folks from wider networks. The common thread: people who are values-aligned, intentional, and serious about finding love, partnership, and family (whether that includes children or not).This project was originally only for people who wanted children.
In March of 2026, we expanded to include folks who desire to be child-free, are done having children, or are unsure.
As of June 2026, because of our original cohort, around 80% of people in the network either want biological kids or are open to a partner who already has children (44%).
A few numbers, as of June 2026:
Around 65 people in the network, with 2 to 3 joining each week.
Age range 25 to 83 (!), average age 41.35.
Under 40: 62%. Ages 40 to 54: 22%. Ages 55+: 16%. (Definitely skewed by our original family-oriented cohort.)
Gender: 53% men/AMAB, 47% women/AFAB.
Regional split (some people list multiple bases, so the sum is greater than 100%): Bay Area/NorCal 37.5% | Colorado Front Range 32.5% | Austin 22.5% | SoCal 7.5% | Other 20%Gender split within regions: Bay Area 60% men / 40% women | Colorado 54% men / 46% women | Austin 44% men / 56% women