Frequently Asked Questions
Who I am
I’m Miami Litton-Palmer, intimacy coach, community weaver, and now matchmaker. I’ve worked with hundreds of people around love, sex, and relationship clarity, and I bring all that experience to matchmaking.
My background isn’t algorithms and this isn't an app. I listen deeply, ask the questions that reveal what really matters, and hold space for your growth along the way.
How it works
✨ Onboarding Call (90 minutes)
We map out your values, desires, deal-breakers, and lifestyle using my 39-point compatibility framework.
✨ Curation & Matching
You’re added to my pool of hand-selected members. I only introduce you when I see genuine alignment or intuition - never just to “fill numbers.”
✨ Unlimited Introductions
You’ll receive at unlimited introductions. Every introduction is thoughtful and intentional.
✨ x3 Refinement Calls (30 minutes each)
Anytime you’re ready, we debrief together - clarifying what worked, what didn’t, and refining your criteria going forward.
✨ Lifetime Membership
Once you’re in, you’re in. You stay in the network indefinitely, with the opportunity for future introductions as new members join.
How much does it cost?
Right now, the early-circle rate is $600. Boutique matchmaking typically costs thousands of dollars (typically 10k-50k!) but I want early members to benefit from accessible pricing while the pool grows. Packages will rise in the future, probably August or September 2026, but if you join now you keep lifetime membership in the network.
Will there be events or community aspect?
Yes. While the core of this service is curated matchmaking, I also want members to feel connected to a broader network. I’m exploring ways to include community offerings — including IRL connection events.
As an early member, you’ll likely receive access to some of these at no cost or at a steep discount. For example, events might be free if you bring a friend, or group participation could be included in your package. The exact shape of this is still evolving, but what’s clear is that membership isn’t just about matches - it’s also about being part of a living, supportive network.
What kind of people are in the pool?
Many members come from dance/embodiment backgrounds, tantra/temple communities, tech/rationalist spaces, spiritual/self-growth backgrounds, and many are simply poly/ENM folks from wider networks. The common thread: people who are values-aligned, intentional, and serious about finding love, partnership, and family (whether that includes children or not).
This project was originally only for people who wanted children. In March of 2026, we expanded to include folks who desire to be child-free, are done having children, or unsure. As of June 2026, because of our original cohort, currently around 80% of people in the network either want biological kids or would like to join a family with children.
As of June 2026, there are around 65 people in the network and 2-3 people are joining a week. The age range of the network is 25-83 (!), the average age of members is 41.35 years old, and the network is 53% men/AMAB, and 47% women/AFAB.
How many matches will I get? How long will it take?
Right now while the network is growing, the offer is that you stay in the pool indefinitely — which means you’re eligible for unlimited introductions whenever new members join who are a fit for you. Most matchmakers offer head-hunting style matchmaking packages something like 5 matches over 6 months (for $$$$^). By becoming a founding member of Intuitive Intimacy, there is never any pressure to make any match work because there is no limit on the introductions you can receive.
It depends. Because I only introduce people when I see genuine alignment, there isn’t a fixed timeline. Some members may receive their first introduction quickly, while others may wait a bit longer depending on their clarity and fit within the pool. Think of this less like instant swiping and more like a curated search - the pace is slower, but the quality is much higher.
As of June 2026, the average wait time for a first match in our core three areas, (the San Francisco Bay Area, Boulder/Denver, CO, and Austin, TX) is 1-2 months.
For people outside of these main areas who are willing to relocate, the average wait time is currently 3 months. For those outside of our hubs and unwilling to relocate, it is longer.
Is this like coaching? Or like a dating app?
Neither. While there are coaching components, like helping you gain clarity, refining your vision after each date, and supporting your communication, this isn’t an official coaching program. Matchmaking is its own container: it’s about introductions, reflection, and clarity, with coaching tools woven in but not the central product.
If you're interested in receiving ongoing poly-informed coaching support, I'd be happy to recommend you to one of my colleagues.
What about geography? Do I have to be in one of the three cities?
No. While there are clusters of members in a few main cities, many in this community are geo-flexible — they travel often, are open to relocating, or split time between multiple home bases. If you want a partner who loves to travel, is open to seasonal living, or is willing to explore relocation, this pool is designed for that kind of flexibility.
Do you guarantee that I’ll find a partner?
No ethical matchmaker can guarantee love. What I can promise is thoughtful curation, personalized attention, and lifetime inclusion in a growing pool of values-aligned members.
Do I have to want kids to join?
Nope! For the first 6 months, the focus was on family-oriented members so that early matches would be aligned.
As of early 2026, the pool is open to everyone who desires a primary partner, whether you have kids, want them, are open to a partner who does, know with certainty that children aren’t a part of your vision, or are open to how things unfold. All are welcome here.
