Why I Do This

Who I am

 

I'm Miami Litton-Palmer, intimacy coach, community weaver, and now matchmaker. I've worked with hundreds of people around love, sex, and relationship clarity, and I bring all of that experience to matchmaking.

 

My background isn't algorithms and this isn't an app. I listen deeply, ask the questions that reveal what really matters, and hold space for your growth along the way.

 

How it works

 

✨ Discovery Call (20 minutes, free) 

A first conversation to get a feel for each other and confirm this is the right fit. I'll ask what you're looking for in a partner, where your relationships stand right now, and what matters most to you.

 

✨ Onboarding Interview (90 minutes) 

We map out your values, desires, deal-breakers, and lifestyle using my 39-point compatibility framework.

 

✨ Curation and Matching 

You're added to my pool of hand-selected members. I only introduce you when I see genuine alignment or intuition, never just to "fill numbers."

 

✨ Unlimited Introductions 

You'll receive unlimited introductions. Every introduction is thoughtful and intentional.

 

✨ Post-Date Debriefs 

Anytime you're ready, we debrief together, clarifying what worked, what didn't, and refining your criteria going forward. Usually over text or voice note, sometimes on a call.

 

✨ Lifetime Membership 

Once you're in, you're in. You stay in the network indefinitely, with the opportunity for future introductions as new members join.

 

How much does it cost?

The founding rate is currently $900, a one-time fee. It goes to $1,200 on November 1, 2026, and founding membership closes at the end of the year when we transition to a subscription model. Boutique matchmaking typically costs thousands of dollars, often $10k to $50k, but I want early members to benefit from accessible pricing while the pool grows. If you join now, you keep lifetime membership in the network at the rate you paid.
 

How is this different from other matchmaking services?

 

Traditional matchmaking services typically operate on a high-ticket, time-limited model. Clients pay $5,000 to $20,000+ for a fixed number of introductions over a set period of time. Those matches are often drawn from a large database where many people are not actively participating, not deeply interviewed, and not equally invested in the process.

 

Intuitive Intimacy works differently. Every person is personally interviewed, and no one is treated as a passive profile waiting to be selected only if they match with a high-ticket client. Right now, you pay once and get lifetime access.

 

And most importantly, no other matchmaking service is designed for open-hearted people who want primary partnership.

 

What's your refund policy?

 

Because this includes a 90-minute alignment interview and lifetime access to an exclusive network, there are no refunds after your interview is complete.

 

How big is the pool right now?

 

As of August 2026, the network is around 85 members and growing at a rate of 2 to 4 people per week. This is a founding member offer, so you're getting in early at an unbeatable rate in the matchmaking world. As the pool grows, you'll have access to more and more potential matches. The early bird rate won't last forever.

 

What kind of people are in the pool?

 

Many members come from dance and embodiment backgrounds, tantra and temple communities, tech and rationalist spaces, and spiritual or self-growth backgrounds. Many are simply poly and ENM folks from wider networks. The common thread: people who are values-aligned, intentional, and serious about finding love, partnership, and family (whether that includes children or not).

 

This project was originally only for people who wanted children. In March of 2026, we expanded to include folks who desire to be child-free, are done having children, or are unsure.

A few numbers, as of August 2026:​​

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• Around 85 people in the network, with 2 to 4 joining each week.

• Age range 25 to 83 (!), average age 41.4.

• Under 40: 60%. Ages 40 to 54: 26%. Ages 55+: 15%. (Definitely skewed by our original family-oriented cohort.)

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Kids:

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• Around 66% of people in the network want biological kids

• Soft yes to kids: 9%

• Do not want (or are done having) bio kids: 26%

• Open to a parter that already has kids: 53%

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Gender & Regional Split:
 

• Gender: 53% men/AMAB, 47% women/AFAB.

 

Regional split (some people list multiple bases, so the sum is greater than 100%): 

Bay Area/NorCal 33% | Colorado Front Range 31% | Austin 18% | SoCal 8% | New England 8% | Pacific Northwest 6% | International 6% | Other 20%
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Gender split within regions: 

Bay Area 60% men / 40% women | Colorado 53% men / 47% women | Austin 44% men / 56% women

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Relocation:
 

• People happy to relocate: 43%

• People who do not want to relocate: 48%

 

How many introductions will I get, and how long will it take?

 

While the network is growing, the offer is that you stay in the pool indefinitely, which means you're eligible for unlimited introductions whenever new members join who are a fit for you. Most matchmakers offer head-hunting style packages, something like 5 matches over 6 months for many thousands of dollars. As a founding member of Intuitive Intimacy, there is never any pressure to make a particular match work, because there's no limit on the introductions you can receive.

 

As for timing, it depends. Because I only introduce people when I see genuine alignment, there isn't a fixed timeline. It also depends on how specific your desires are, your location, your availability, and honestly, timing and chemistry. Some members receive their first introduction quickly, others wait longer depending on their clarity and fit within the pool. Think of this less like instant swiping and more like a curated search. The pace is slower, but the quality is much higher.

 

As of June 2026, the average wait for a first match in our core three areas (the San Francisco Bay Area, Boulder/Denver, CO, and Austin, TX) is 1 to 2 months. For people outside of these main areas who are willing to relocate, the average wait is currently around 3 months. For those outside our hubs and not open to relocating, it's longer.

 

Do you guarantee that I'll find a partner?

 

No ethical matchmaker can guarantee love. What I can promise is thoughtful curation, personalized attention, and lifetime inclusion in a growing pool of values-aligned members.

 

What if it doesn't work out with someone I'm matched with?

 

That's completely normal and expected. Not every match will be your person, but every match will teach you something. And remember, you have lifetime access. If a relationship doesn't work out, you can always come back and be matched again.

 

Do you have success stories yet?

 

Even though Intuitive Intimacy launched only this year, we already have testimonials from members who found the interview process alone to be incredibly valuable and eye-opening. Several members have gone on dates and reported feeling grateful for the thoughtful matching. As the network grows and people find their partners, more success stories will come.

 

What cities are you serving? Do I have to be in one of them?

 

Right now the main concentrations are the San Francisco Bay Area, Austin, TX, and Boulder/Denver, CO. But no, you don't have to be in one of those three.

 

While there are clusters of members in a few main cities, many people in this community are geo-flexible. They travel often, are open to relocating, or split time between multiple home bases. If you want a partner who loves to travel, is open to seasonal living, or is willing to explore relocation, this pool is designed for that kind of flexibility. If you're somewhere else entirely, you're welcome to join.

 

Is this like coaching? Or like a dating app?

 

Neither. There are coaching components, like helping you gain clarity, refining your vision after each date, and supporting your communication, but this isn't an official coaching program. Matchmaking is its own container: it's about introductions, reflection, and clarity, with coaching tools woven in but not the central product.

 

If you're interested in ongoing poly-informed coaching support, I'd be happy to recommend one of my colleagues.

 

Do I have to want kids to join?

 

Nope. For the first 6 months, the focus was on family-oriented members so that early matches would be aligned.

 

As of early 2026, the pool is open to everyone who desires a primary partner, whether you have kids, want them, are open to a partner who does, know with certainty that children aren't part of your vision, or are open to how things unfold. All are welcome here.

 

I'm monogam(ish) but not fully polyamorous. Is this for me?

 

Yes. This is for anyone who doesn't fit into traditional monogamy. Whether you're poly, ENM, or monogam(ish) (maybe you like attending play parties together, for example), you're welcome here.

 

What if I'm trans or queer?

 

This service is inclusive of all gender identities and sexual orientations. You're absolutely welcome here.

 

Will there be events or a community aspect?

 

Yes. While the core of this service is curated matchmaking, I also want members to feel connected to a broader network. I'm exploring ways to include community offerings, including IRL connection events.

 

As an early member, you'll likely receive access to some of these at no cost or at a steep discount. For example, events might be free if you bring a friend, or group participation could be included in your package. The exact shape of this is still evolving, but what's clear is that membership isn't just about matches. It's also about being part of a living, supportive network.

 

Can I help grow the network?

 

Absolutely. The fastest way for this to grow for everyone is for you to share it with your community. Post about your experience with the interview on your personal social media. Tell your poly friends who want families. Refer people you know would be a great fit.