Why I Do This

People in my community were saying to me “please put this together.” A matchmaking service that actually understands non-monogamy, family, and the longing for love that fits. I said yes, because I believe we all deserve aligned partnership and village, not just swipes and situationships.

I know how vulnerable dating can feel. That’s why I create a container where you’re seen in your fullness, your values come first, and your time isn’t wasted on matches that don’t make sense.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who I am

I’m Miami Litton-Palmer — intimacy coach, community weaver, and now matchmaker. I’ve worked with hundreds of people around love, sex, and relationship clarity, and I bring all that experience to matchmaking.

My background isn’t algorithms — it’s humans. I listen deeply, ask the questions that reveal what really matters, and hold space for your growth along the way.

How it works

✨ Onboarding Call (1 hour)

We map out your values, desires, deal-breakers, and lifestyle using my 39-point compatibility framework.

✨ Curation & Matching

You’re added to my pool of hand-selected members. I only introduce you when I see genuine alignment — never just to “fill numbers.”

✨ Unlimited Introductions

You’ll receive at unlimited introductions. Every introduction is thoughtful and intentional.

✨ x3 Refinement Calls (30 minutes each)

Anytime you’re ready, we debrief together — clarifying what worked, what didn’t, and refining your criteria going forward.

✨ Lifetime Membership

Once you’re in, you’re in. You stay in the pool indefinitely, with the opportunity for future introductions as new members join.

How much does it cost?

Right now the early-circle rate is $400–$600 (sliding scale). Boutique matchmaking typically costs thousands of dollars, but I want early members to benefit from accessible pricing while the pool grows. Packages might rise in the future, but if you join now you keep lifetime membership in the pool.

Will there be events or community aspect?

Yes. While the core of this service is curated matchmaking, I also want members to feel connected to a broader network. I’m exploring ways to include community offerings — including live events or mixers, and other chances to connect. We currently have an online group for anyone curious about meeting people through this group (whether you’ve signed up for the personalized matchmaking or not). Here is a link to the group.

As an early member, you’ll likely receive access to some of these at no cost or at a steep discount. For example, events might be free if you bring a friend, or group participation could be included in your package. The exact shape of this is still evolving, but what’s clear is that membership isn’t just about matches — it’s also about being part of a living, supportive network.

What kind of people are in the pool?

Many members come from tantra/temple communities, and many are simply poly/ENM folks from wider networks. The common thread: people who are values-aligned, intentional, and serious about finding love, partnership, and family.

How many matches will I get? How long will it take?

I guarantee at least three curated introductions. Beyond that, you stay in the pool indefinitely — which means you’re eligible for introductions whenever new members join who are a fit for you.

It depends. Because I only introduce people when I see genuine alignment, there isn’t a fixed timeline. Some members may receive their first introduction quickly, while others may wait a bit longer depending on their clarity and fit within the pool. Think of this less like instant swiping and more like a curated search — the pace is slower, but the quality is much higher.

Is this like coaching? Or like a dating app?

Neither. While there are coaching components — like helping you gain clarity, refining your vision after each date, and supporting your communication — this isn’t an official coaching program. Matchmaking is its own container: it’s about introductions, reflection, and clarity, with coaching tools woven in but not the central product.

What about geography? Do I have to be in one of the three cities?

No. While there are clusters of members in a few main cities, many in this community are geo-flexible — they travel often, are open to relocating, or split time between multiple home bases. If you want a partner who loves to travel, is open to seasonal living, or is willing to explore relocation, this pool is designed for that kind of flexibility.

Do you guarantee that I’ll find a partner?

No ethical matchmaker can guarantee love. What I can promise is thoughtful curation, personalized attention, and lifetime inclusion in a growing pool of values-aligned members.

Do I have to want kids to join?

Right now, yes — the focus is on people who either already have kids, want kids, or are open to joining a family with children (even if not biologically theirs). If you’re unsure, you’re still welcome to apply, but the current emphasis is on members who fit into one of those categories. Over time, I plan to expand the pool to include people who don’t want kids, but the early focus is on family-minded members so matches are aligned.

✨ Ready to begin?

If you’ve made it this far, you’re probably feeling the spark.

Join now at the early-circle rate and become part of a growing network of people seeking love, family, and alignment.

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